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Certified Life Coach | Austin, TX
Adults & teens (16+) • In person & Zoom
The Coming Home Process
A 6-Month Coaching Journey
After working with thousands of women over the past 25 years, I've noticed something.
The women who find me aren't looking for another coach to motivate them or another book to read. Most have already done that. They've invested years in therapy, personal growth, workshops, podcasts, self-help books, spiritual practices, yet they're still asking themselves the same question:
"Why do I know exactly what I want...but I can't seem to create it?"
What they really want isn't another breakthrough.
They want to trust themselves.
They want a relationship where they can finally exhale instead of constantly questioning where they stand. They want to stop shrinking, overthinking, apologizing, and carrying everyone else's needs before their own. They want to build the business that's been living inside them for years, ask for what they're worth without feeling guilty, and wake up excited about a life that finally feels like theirs.
Deep down, they aren't just looking for less anxiety or better boundaries.
They're longing for the quiet confidence that comes from knowing who they are, trusting their own voice, and no longer letting fear make the biggest decisions in their lives.
That's why I created The Coming Home Process.
I believe most women don't need more information, they need someone who can help them recognize the hidden patterns that have been quietly shaping their choices for years. Once those old protective strategies become visible, everything begins to make sense. The life you've been trying so hard to create no longer feels like something you have to chase. It becomes something you finally have the freedom to choose.
So how do we uncover the patterns that have been quietly shaping your life for years?
It begins with three simple phases…
The Three Phases of The Coming Home Process
Phase One: Awareness
Every butterfly begins as a caterpillar.
In this first phase, we uncover the deeply ingrained survival patterns that have been quietly shaping your life. Together, we'll identify the fears, beliefs, and protective strategies that have kept you stuck in The Self-Abandonment Cycle.
You can't change what you can't see. Awareness is where everything begins.
Phase Two: Metamorphosis
The caterpillar doesn't become a butterfly overnight.
It enters the chrysalis…a season of change where the old way of living begins to fall away and something entirely new starts to emerge.
This is where insight becomes practice. You'll begin responding from your authentic self instead of fear—setting boundaries, trusting yourself, honoring your needs, and discovering what it feels like to stop abandoning yourself.
Phase Three: Integration
When a butterfly leaves the chrysalis, it never goes back to being a caterpillar.
This is where everything you've been practicing begins to feel natural.
One day you'll notice you're no longer rehearsing conversations in your head before they happen. You'll say no without spending three days feeling guilty. You'll stop looking around the room to see what everyone else thinks before trusting your own instincts.
You'll leave the relationship that no longer fits or you'll finally create one where you can exhale.
You'll stop undercharging and confidently ask for what you're worth.
You'll launch the business, write the book, apply for the promotion, or take the leap you've been talking yourself out of for years.
Instead of waking up wondering how you're going to get through another day, you'll wake up excited about the life you're creating.
You'll laugh more.
Feel lighter.
Take more risks.
Trust yourself.
Love more deeply.
And somewhere along the way, you'll realize something...
The woman you've been searching for was never missing. She was simply waiting for you to stop abandoning her.
You were never meant to stay the caterpillar.
In our sessions, we'll...
✓ Discover what's really driving your fear, self-doubt, and people-pleasing.
✓ Connect the dots between your past experiences, your relationships, your nervous system, and the choices you're making today.
✓ Learn practical, neuroscience-informed tools to regulate your nervous system so fear no longer makes your decisions.
✓ Use somatic practices, guided reflection, and spiritual tools to reconnect with your intuition and inner wisdom.
✓ Recognize the beliefs and patterns that keep pulling you away from yourself and begin replacing them with healthier ways of thinking, feeling, and responding.
✓ Practice setting boundaries, trusting yourself, and making choices that feel aligned with who you truly are.
✓ Build healthier, more peaceful relationships without losing yourself in the process.
✓ Create a life that feels authentic, meaningful, and deeply your own.
There will be moments that make you cry, moments that make you laugh until your stomach hurts, and moments when everything suddenly clicks. Growth doesn't have to feel heavy all the time. Sometimes the biggest transformations begin with one simple realization: "Oh...I've been doing that my whole life."
Why You Can Believe Something...and Still Not Live It
Years ago, I hired a coach who gave me a list of empowering beliefs to read every morning.
"I am worthy."
"I trust myself."
"I deserve healthy love."
"I am abundant."
At first, I thought I'd found the answer.
Every morning, I'd read those words and feel lighter, more hopeful, more confident. I'd think, "Maybe this is finally the thing that's going to change my life."
But then life would happen.
A difficult conversation. A guy I was dating wouldn't text me back. I'd talk myself out of raising my prices or compare myself to another woman who seemed to have it all figured out.
Within minutes, the fear and self-doubt were back. I questioned every decision and felt like I'd never read those affirmations at all.
I thought I needed more discipline. More affirmations. More positive thinking.
But here's what was really happening...
My conscious mind believed the new thoughts.
My nervous system didn't.
For decades, my nervous system had practiced fear, people-pleasing, self-doubt, and believing I wasn't enough. It was like planting beautiful flower seeds in hard, dry soil. The seeds weren't the problem. The soil simply wasn't ready.
Everything changed when I stopped trying to convince myself I was different and started changing the survival patterns my nervous system had been rehearsing for years.
As those patterns changed, my life changed.
I no longer had to convince myself I was worthy.
I believed it.
I stopped telling myself I was abundant.
I started creating abundance.
My business grew. I raised my prices, trusted my intuition, traveled more, led workshops, and said yes to opportunities the old version of me would have talked herself out of.
But the greatest change wasn't what I accomplished.
It was waking up each morning trusting myself instead of fighting myself.
That's why The Coming Home Process isn't about thinking differently.
It's about creating a new foundation in your mind, body, and nervous system so confidence, healthy relationships, abundance, and purpose stop feeling like things you chase...and simply become the way you live.
What my client’s have to say…
“Take my advice, WORK WITH JESSICA. I spent years in and out of therapy hardly getting anywhere. But my experience with Jessica totally changed my life. I am a new person. I finally like myself. I understand my needs. I even got a promotion at work because I'm showing up stronger. Jessica taught me how to be the full me and she will help you do the same.”
- Suzanne B. ★★★★★
“I absolutely enjoyed working with Jessica. She is so welcoming and present and insightful. She has a gentle way of offering different perspectives and pushing you out of your comfort zone… One of my very deep needs is to feel safe and Jessica provides that so that you can focus on the work. The 6 months of coaching that I had with her was amazing.”
- Jennifer H. ★★★★★
“Jessica’s energy is beautiful and clear. Her compassion is real. I can literally let go of all my internal chatter in our sessions without ever feeling judged. Being able to feel like I can be completely vulnerable with Jessica is liberating. I love the emotional release tools she shares with me. … Her style of coaching is just what I need. I am so happy our lives have crossed paths.”
- Gayle M. ★★★★★
It’s Time to Come Home to YOU.
What to Expect
Every coaching journey is personalized.
Whether you're healing relationship patterns, navigating a major life transition, building a business, or learning to trust yourself again, we'll tailor The Coming Home Process to your unique goals and the life you want to create.
✓ Complimentary 30-minute Discovery Call
✓ Personalized 6-month coaching journey
✓ Sessions available in person in Austin or via Zoom
✓ Private-pay coaching
Coaching Investment
Most coaching journeys range from $1,500–$4,500, depending on the level of support you need and how we customize your experience together.
Let's See If We're the Right Fit
The Discovery Call is simply a conversation.
You'll have the opportunity to share what's bringing you here, ask questions, and get a feel for how I work. Together, we'll decide whether The Coming Home Process is the right next step for you.
You don't need to have everything figured out before you reach out.
You just need to stop talking yourself out of taking the first step.
Work with a Certified Life Coach in Austin, TX
Finally overcome anxiety and feeling stuck…
“When I came to Jessica, I was at a low point in my life experiencing feelings of depression & anxiety. Through Jessica's support, I was able to identify & understand a lot of the reasons why I was feeling how I was feeling which allowed me to shift my mindset towards transformation vs. being stuck in the same vicious cycle. She provided thoughtful tools & feedback throughout the entire process that I am still working on implementing today. She is such a light and always, ALWAYS holds space for whatever you are experiencing in the moment. If you are looking for someone to give you honest & unwavering support, Jessica is the coach for you!”
- Shelby S. ★★★★★
The Coming Home Process is a personalized 6-month coaching journey designed around your unique goals, challenges, and growth.
Online coaching sessions are available throughout the United States via Zoom.
In-person coaching sessions are available at my Texas office:
4131 Spicewood Springs Rd, Austin, Texas
Monday - Friday, 9am - 5pm
Cash, checks, and all credit cards (including AMEX, Visa, MC, and Discover) are accepted.
Coaching services are private pay only and are not covered by health insurance.